8 Male Masturbation Mistakes
Most people would agree that masturbation is a pretty exciting and enjoyable experience, especially after an exhausting day at the office. While there is no right or wrong way of doing it, there are some things that can improve your masturbating sessions and introduce you to a whole new world of intense orgasms and unforgettable experiences.
Many guys see masturbation as some sort of a ritual that helps them overcome a stressful day or perhaps just make them feel good for a few seconds. However, what most guys don’t know is that they are probably making some mistakes while they are jacking off, and even though they are ultimately complacent, there is always room for improvement. In order to prevent a jerking off fail and have the time of your life, you ought to look at some of the tips and tricks we’ve covered in this article. While you might not learn something new per se, these tips will definitely improve your wanking sessions and bring them to a whole new level of intensity and pleasure.
Common Mistakes You Might be Making
Here are some things you’re probably doing subconsciously that are depriving you of true and ultimate pleasure;
- Doing it too Quickly
It’s pretty common for guys just to beat their meat and get it over with as soon as possible. Although it sounds like a pretty good plan, polishing your pecker too quickly prevents you from truly enjoying the moment. On top of that, masturbating too quickly significantly lowers your sexual stamina, meaning it can come and bite you in the ass during sex. You wouldn’t want to embarrass yourself by lasting mere minutes in bed, would you? So, rather than chasing your orgasm, let it come naturally and try resisting the urge to ejaculate as quickly as possible. Trust us; you’ll be thankful for this technique once the time comes to show off your sexual prowess in bed.
- Sticking With the Same Techniques for Years
Using the same exact techniques might ultimately work for you, but it can become pretty mundane and borderline boring after a while. That’s why it’s important to innovate and bring in new techniques from time to time in order to avoid repetitiveness and ultimately fight off masturbation fail sessions.
The best thing about this is that you don’t need to be the next Einstein to spice up your wanking sessions. For instance, buying a simple fleshlight or a battery-powered toy will improve your jerk off sessions by orders of magnitude. If you’re not keen on using sex toys, try changing the rhythm of the strokes and taking deep breaths every once in a while. Alternate your techniques and rest assured that even the slightest changes yield incredibly different, and more importantly – better results.
- You Don’t Always Have to Ejaculate
This may sound pretty ridiculous to most guys, but you don’t actually have to ejaculate every time you masturbate. Similar to our first tip, this one also allows you to build up stamina and postpone your climax more and more each time you jerk off. We know it’s tough to resist the urge to ejaculate, but we strongly recommend you to give it a try, and you’ll immediately notice the upsides.
This isn’t a hard-written rule by any means, and you can ejaculate as much as you want, but don’t hesitate to spice up things a bit by delaying your orgasm, and we promise you won’t regret it.
- Lube is Your Friend
A lot of guys don’t even consider using lube because it seems like too much work for little gain. What they don’t realize is that lube actually heightens the sensation and makes your orgasm ten times more intense. We recommend using water-based lube since it’s easy to clean up, feels natural, and is less likely to irritate sensitive skin.
- Explore Your Kinks
There’s nothing wrong with having weird kinks as long as they are within reason. However, what you don’t know is that you might have some kinks you aren’t even aware of! Say you like watching buffed oiled guys with a six-pack wanking each other, but did you consider watching older buffed dudes doing the same? Maybe you like watching young skinny boys blasting each other, but did you consider watching young guys in school uniforms doing the same? You get the point; don’t hesitate to delve deeper into your fantasies, and you might find something new that’s worth exploring further.
- Jerking With a Condom
This is somewhat of a vanilla approach, but many guys fall victim to condom fail jerking and give up instantly. Beating your meat with a condom is an excellent strategy as long as you can find that sweet spot. It’s much smoother than doing it dry, and more importantly – you don’t have to clean up after!
- Use Your Whole Body
You can turn your masturbating sessions into a work of art by using your whole body rather than just furiously stroking your member. Play with your balls, rub your nipples, and use your free hand to stimulate other parts of your body. There are countless erogenous zones on your body; it’s only a matter of finding them and capitalizing on your new discoveries.
- Don’t Hide it From Your Significant Other
A lot of guys have this weird perception that masturbation is somehow wrong and should be done in complete privacy. Conversely, it’s actually a great activity to share with your significant other and maybe even make it into a regular ritual on specific days, for instance – on Fridays. Rather than going on a date and spending a ton of money on dinners and booze, you could stay at home, put on your favorite Netflix show and play with each other. Alternatively, you could always watch some porn and get kinky with your significant other!
Interesting Myths and Facts About Masturbation
Now that you know a thing or two about masturbation keeping mistakes and how to avoid them, it’s time to focus on some interesting facts and known myths.
- It’s Completely Normal to Masturbate Every Day
Many people would consider you an addict if they knew you like masturbating at least once every day. However, you would be surprised by the number of guys who love jacking off once every day to relieve some stress and enjoy those few minutes of total nirvana.
- You Could End Up Crying!
Post-coital blues is an actual thing, and it’s quite a common problem nowadays. Many men and women cry after masturbation, and it has even been mentioned in literature as sex-induced depression. Don’t worry though, it’s not an alarming problem whatsoever, but it can happen to anyone!
- Masturbation Does Not Lower Your Libido
No matter how often you masturbate, it won’t lower your libido. It also doesn’t cause blindness, infertility, nor will it shrink your penis. Even though many of these concerns seem ridiculous, many people still think they are a reasonable possibility, which is completely false.
Have you tried any of these techniques? Has any of these techniques change your perspective on masturbation? Leave a comment and let us know! If you’d like to read more about masturbation, sexuality, and kinky endeavors, don’t hesitate to read our other articles!